I can claim to be Deepti’s one of the first yog students. The journey started in Apr 2019 and since then Deepti has been more than just my yog trainer. She is my mentor, friend and companion and the bond is lifelong (I am not going to leave you Deepti).
More than a year back, I came out of a rare auto-immune disease after being bedridden for 5-6 months and then took another 5-6 months to recover from it. Though most of it was cured, however, I lost 10-12 kgs in the process and lots of my confidence as well. However, I gained lots of wisdom about life and how would I like to live it going forward. Same time, Deepti just happened to me through a WhatsApp message someone put on my society group.
I am normally very irregular over the WhatsApp group but somehow this message caught my attention. God sends angels in our lives to help us when we are in our worst and I feel he sent Deepti to get me out of the shit I was in for a year.
After a few classes only, I realized that this association is going to last long (no matter how hard Deepti tried to leave me because of her and my busy schedule ;-)). Hurdles kept coming in form of irregularity, unavailability and early winter mornings. I can boast getting up at 4 and taking 5 am classes at Deepti’s place in peak winters.
Realizing all my batch mates dropped, she allowed me to do yoga with her family and that’s how I got to know three more beautiful souls: Ashish, Avni and Maa (Deepti’s Mom). I actually felt being part of the family and got many perks other than Yog: Tasty food, heavenly head massages by aunty, marketing Talks with Ashish and an elder sister for my daughter.
Now when I look back and try to contemplate why it turned out to be so beautiful, I realize that it’s because I found my alter ego in Deepti. When it comes to her profession, she is strict, a perfectionist and a “no-nonsense accepted” person. But when it comes to her personal traits, she is very emotional, helpful and caring.
I can go on talking about my journey with her and I know it makes a nice story for the next “Netflix” series but let me get to the real point of “Benefits of Yog”. The much-talked ones, you all know. So I will be very specific that how it helped me, mentally and physically, and pardon me if a few of them are a little awkward to read:
Gained the right weight: One of the most visible benefits I experienced.
I gained my original weight back and in the right places. Yog is not about gaining or losing weight and that’s just a byproduct of the whole process. However, for me, it was very necessary to gain my weight back to gain my physical strength back.
Stopped being unnecessarily emotional: I stopped crying or arguing when not needed
I remember a few incidences at my office where my anger burst in form of tears and believe me there can’t be nothing more embarrassing than to cry in front of your colleague. I don't know how exactly it happened, but now, I am so happy with my control over my emotions or at least form of expression. It doesn’t mean that I don’t get angry anymore, but I know how to take it out or channelize it.
Height Gain: It’s true
Can you believe a 36 years old to gain height but it happened to me? Now, do you know that Yog can do wonders? I got a bad habit to sit with a hump at my middle back and Deepti kept pointing it till I didn’t start correcting it and I have improved a lot now. I feel my spine has literally grown straight which helped me to gain few cms.
Spine correction: Yes I can feel that
Yog works at a different level and some of the results are not visible with naked eyes. I can actually feel my spine and can see how beautiful it looks now, exactly like we have seen it in our biology lessons in childhood.
Size 32 to 34: Don’t laugh when you read this
As a growing teenager I was always conscious of my breasts not growing to the extent I used to see of my friends and somewhere I developed the habit of hiding it with my drooping shoulders. Thanks to Deepti being after my poor shoulders, they are much expanded now to be not ashamed of myself. Interestingly my B size changed from 32 to 34 and I am so happy about that. (I know Deepti your concern was for my shoulders but I love the by-product)
Urine control: No more visualize myself with adult diapers
After childbirth, I got this embarrassing situation where I couldn’t hold my urine once I get the urge of it (Not that you should try doing it but then there are emergency situations). Thank god now the first thing I do is to hug my kid when I get back home than to rush to the bathroom.
Body realization: I am a defective piece
Interestingly we never halt and get to see our own body. While doing Yog with Deepti, I got to discover so many new things about my body and one of them was that my left and right side are totally different from each other and there are so many Asanas which I can do from my left side but not from the right. “How does this realization help me?” I am not sure about that but isn’t it very important.
Less cribbing and annoying: Hope so
I started enjoying imperfections in people and situations and not getting disturbed by them, mostly.
I can go on and on about many other by-products of these benefits such as
- Better control over situations
- Happy mom and wife
- Better productivity at work
- A good team leader
- Better concentration and focus…..
But I think I should stop as most of you must be inspired by now to go for Yog and if you still are not, then one trial class with Deepti will do the rest.
I will close it saying
Thanks Deepti for scolding me when I didn’t do my Asanas right, torturing me with that “Stay in this pose for 2 minutes” and ignoring me sometimes so I do it better because I know that you always will be there to encourage me to try what’s beyond my capacity, comfort me when I will be at my emotional worst and push me to get best out of my life.
You may not like to call yourself that but “You are my Guru” and will always be.
Love...
Vibha